2016年5月31日 星期二

52週人脈計畫 -第24週  精心打造有力的第一印象




第24週  精心打造有力的第一印象

商場上有句老話:你絕對不會有第2次機會去製造良好的第一印象。這週的任務是要深入、仔細地檢視自己給其他人的第一印象是什麼。問以下2個問題:「對第一次見面的人來說,我給他們的感覺是什麼?」「我看起來像是專業、值得認識的好幫手,還是只像個想要推銷東西的人?」根據你所發現的結果,你可能必須對自己平常的打扮和穿著進行一些改變。

在進行這項評估的同時,也應該花點時間檢視自己平常使用的肢體語言。你和他人的眼神接觸恰當嗎?你的站姿是會讓人感到親切,還是你的一舉一動都在告訴別人你不想被打擾?利用這週去向你的朋友請教,然後找出自己該怎麼做(或者該做什麼改變),才能製造出良好的第一印象。


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Week 24  Ace making a powerful first impression

The business cliche is that you never get a second chance to make a good first impression. Your assignment this week is to take a long, hard look at what kind of first impression you are projecting to others. Ask: "What message am I sending to those who meet me for the first time? Do I come across as professional and a good resource to know or do I merely come across as someone who is out to sell them something?" On the basis of what you find, you may need to make some changes in your general grooming and choice of clothing.

As you make this evaluation, also spend some time on the body language you typically use. Do you make good eye contact? Do you stand in a welcoming manner, or does everything you do send the message that you should not be approached? Ask your friends for feedback this week and work out what you need to be doing (or changing) in order to make a solid first impression.

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